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Scott Lipscomb's avatar

I remember being baffled by the pseudo-controversy around empathy a few weeks ago. I did a bit of googling and found a more-conservative Christian willing to actually make an argument on the subject. Basically, his position was that sympathy was good, while empathy was bad. He took the latter to mean more than simply recognizing another's suffering. Under his definition, empathy involves actually abandoning one's principles in order to more fully identify with the other person.

But it seems to me that no one actually uses the word this way; even if we want to differentiate empathy from sympathy by saying that empathy is more radical in its identification with the other than sympathy, I still don't know anyone who would argue that you have to abandon your own values to empathize.

This is one of those cases where subtlety is required: on the one hand, I agree that if empathy required us to abandon our own values, that would be bad. But on the other hand, I don't think anyone actually uses the term this way. So this whole presentation of empathy as dangerous is built on a slippery bait-and-switch.

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Qafqaz's avatar

Riveting in its timeliness, this piece is undeniably poignant and expertly written. I shall be sharing it at once with others, and I suspect a great many people will be as scandalized by its content as by their inability to logically refute it.

"I am the way, the truth, and the life." Truth, it seems, to many people was spoken silently.

Love you brother. Godspeed.

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